How to know when I'm being added or deleted from a friends list?

Hi~

How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added or
deleted from a friend's contact list?

How do I identify from being blocked?

If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format the
OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
list?

Thank U so Much!^^

Christian
Tue Feb 22 06:22:13 CST 2005

Hi,

1.) From what I know you can't find out at what time and
on which day someone added you to his/her contact list.
If someone adds you to his/her contact list you just get
a notice in MSN that someone added you and if you want to
add him/her to your contact list, too.

But if someone deletes (and blocks) you from his/her
contact list you don't get any notice in MSN. You can
only get that out if you write him/her a eMail (He/She
needs to respond though).


2.) If you want to know if someone blocked you on his/her
contact list you can check it with a "block checker". But
please note that this doesn't work everytime and it's
also NOT supported by Microsoft. Here's the page of
the "block checker":
http://www.messengerplace.com/msnblockchecker.htm

You just need to enter your buddy's eMail address and
click on "Controleer". A popup comes up and it says if
he/she is online or not.


3.) If someone removes MSN Messenger from his PC or if
he/she formated the PC and reinstalled MSN Messenger it
doesn't affect your status on his/her contact list. If
she blocked you before she removed MSN / formated his/her
PC you will stay blocked because MSN Messenger saves the
contact list on a server.


Hope this helps,
Christian Kellerer


>-----Original Message-----
>Hi~
>
>How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added or
>deleted from a friend's contact list?
>
>How do I identify from being blocked?
>
>If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
the
>OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
>list?
>
>Thank U so Much!^^
>.
>

Jonathan
Tue Feb 22 13:23:03 CST 2005

Greetings,

You can find out if someone has removed you from their list, by clicking the Tools menu, then
Options, then Privacy tab, right-clicking their name in the Allow/Blocked lists, and seeing
if the Delete option is grayed out or not. If it is grayed, then you're still on their list,
if it isn't, you've been removed.

There are block checkers, but they don't really work (the default options in Messenger
prevent it).

Contact lists are stored on the server; nothing will change from formatting or logging on a
different PC.
____________________________________________
Jonathan Kay
Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
Associate Expert
http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005 Jonathan Kay.
You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.

"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
news:0e9f01c518d1$0bc49030$a501280a@phx.gbl...
> Hi~
>
> How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added or
> deleted from a friend's contact list?
>
> How do I identify from being blocked?
>
> If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format the
> OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
> list?
>
> Thank U so Much!^^

Ycs
Wed Feb 23 03:46:09 CST 2005

Dear Christian Kellerer & Jonathan Kay,

Firstly, Thank U so much for the help!

I have other questions...@_@

Sometimes ago,I learnt about the first method Jonathan
mentioned below,out of curiosity, I checked out everyone
on my list.

Person A,has been on my list...
For mine last check,the Delete option isn't greyed
out,which means I'm being deleted.
Yesterday,I was editing my Allow/Block list,I checked
again. This time~I am greyed out,which means I'm being
added in again,right?

Qn:
If I'm suppose to get notified when someone added me,for
this incident,I didn't not receive any notification at
all. Why is that so?

If I'm being blocked, but not deleted. The Delete option
will be grey out or not?

Best Regards,
Ycs^^

>-----Original Message-----
>Greetings,
>
>You can find out if someone has removed you from their
list, by clicking the Tools menu, then
>Options, then Privacy tab, right-clicking their name in
the Allow/Blocked lists, and seeing
>if the Delete option is grayed out or not. If it is
grayed, then you're still on their list,
>if it isn't, you've been removed.
>
>There are block checkers, but they don't really work
(the default options in Messenger
>prevent it).
>
>Contact lists are stored on the server; nothing will
change from formatting or logging on a
>different PC.
>____________________________________________
>Jonathan Kay
>Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
>Associate Expert
>http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
>Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
>All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005
Jonathan Kay.
>You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.
>
>"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in
message
>news:0e9f01c518d1$0bc49030$a501280a@phx.gbl...
>> Hi~
>>
>> How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added
or
>> deleted from a friend's contact list?
>>
>> How do I identify from being blocked?
>>
>> If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
the
>> OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
>> list?
>>
>> Thank U so Much!^^
>
>
>.
>

ycs
Wed Feb 23 03:52:10 CST 2005

Dear Christian Kellerer & Jonathan Kay,

Firstly, Thank U so much for the help!

*Sob* I really really want to know WHEN (Date&Time) I'm
being added/deleted thou. ~>_<~ sob~ sob~

I have other questions...@_@

Sometimes ago,I learnt about the first method Jonathan
mentioned below,out of curiosity, I checked out everyone
on my list.

Person A,has been on my list...
For mine last check,the Delete option isn't greyed
out,which means I'm being deleted.
Yesterday,I was editing my Allow/Block list,I checked
again. This time~I am greyed out,which means I'm being
added in again,right?

Qn:
If I'm suppose to get notified when someone added me,for
this incident,I didn't not receive any notification at
all. Why is that so?

If I'm being blocked, but not deleted. The Delete option
will be grey out or not?

Best Regards,
Ycs^^

>-----Original Message-----
>Hi,
>
>1.) From what I know you can't find out at what time and
>on which day someone added you to his/her contact list.
>If someone adds you to his/her contact list you just get
>a notice in MSN that someone added you and if you want
to
>add him/her to your contact list, too.
>
>But if someone deletes (and blocks) you from his/her
>contact list you don't get any notice in MSN. You can
>only get that out if you write him/her a eMail (He/She
>needs to respond though).
>
>
>2.) If you want to know if someone blocked you on
his/her
>contact list you can check it with a "block checker".
But
>please note that this doesn't work everytime and it's
>also NOT supported by Microsoft. Here's the page of
>the "block checker":
>http://www.messengerplace.com/msnblockchecker.htm
>
>You just need to enter your buddy's eMail address and
>click on "Controleer". A popup comes up and it says if
>he/she is online or not.
>
>
>3.) If someone removes MSN Messenger from his PC or if
>he/she formated the PC and reinstalled MSN Messenger it
>doesn't affect your status on his/her contact list. If
>she blocked you before she removed MSN / formated
his/her
>PC you will stay blocked because MSN Messenger saves the
>contact list on a server.
>
>
>Hope this helps,
>Christian Kellerer
>
>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>Hi~
>>
>>How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added
or
>>deleted from a friend's contact list?
>>
>>How do I identify from being blocked?
>>
>>If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
>the
>>OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
>>list?
>>
>>Thank U so Much!^^
>>.
>>
>.
>

ycs
Wed Feb 23 03:53:13 CST 2005

Hi Jon,

*Sob* I really really want to know WHEN (Date&Time) I'm
being added/deleted thou. ~>_<~ sob~ sob~

By any chance I can know about it?

>-----Original Message-----
>Dear Christian Kellerer & Jonathan Kay,
>
>Firstly, Thank U so much for the help!
>
>I have other questions...@_@
>
>Sometimes ago,I learnt about the first method Jonathan
>mentioned below,out of curiosity, I checked out everyone
>on my list.
>
>Person A,has been on my list...
>For mine last check,the Delete option isn't greyed
>out,which means I'm being deleted.
>Yesterday,I was editing my Allow/Block list,I checked
>again. This time~I am greyed out,which means I'm being
>added in again,right?
>
>Qn:
>If I'm suppose to get notified when someone added me,for
>this incident,I didn't not receive any notification at
>all. Why is that so?
>
>If I'm being blocked, but not deleted. The Delete option
>will be grey out or not?
>
>Best Regards,
>Ycs^^
>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>Greetings,
>>
>>You can find out if someone has removed you from their
>list, by clicking the Tools menu, then
>>Options, then Privacy tab, right-clicking their name in
>the Allow/Blocked lists, and seeing
>>if the Delete option is grayed out or not. If it is
>grayed, then you're still on their list,
>>if it isn't, you've been removed.
>>
>>There are block checkers, but they don't really work
>(the default options in Messenger
>>prevent it).
>>
>>Contact lists are stored on the server; nothing will
>change from formatting or logging on a
>>different PC.
>>____________________________________________
>>Jonathan Kay
>>Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
>>Associate Expert
>>http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
>>Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
>>All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005
>Jonathan Kay.
>>You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.
>>
>>"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in
>message
>>news:0e9f01c518d1$0bc49030$a501280a@phx.gbl...
>>> Hi~
>>>
>>> How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added
>or
>>> deleted from a friend's contact list?
>>>
>>> How do I identify from being blocked?
>>>
>>> If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
>the
>>> OS system,does this affect my status in his/her
contact
>>> list?
>>>
>>> Thank U so Much!^^
>>
>>
>>.
>>
>.
>

ycs
Wed Feb 23 03:58:19 CST 2005

So~
The MSN Blocker will only works when the person is online?
I won't get to know whether I'm being Blocked, if the
person is offline?

>-----Original Message-----
>Hi~
>
>How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added or
>deleted from a friend's contact list?
>
>How do I identify from being blocked?
>
>If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
the
>OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
>list?
>
>Thank U so Much!^^
>.
>

Jonathan
Wed Feb 23 12:19:04 CST 2005

Hi,

I'm afraid not, Messenger doesn't keep track of this information.
____________________________________________
Jonathan Kay
Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
Associate Expert
http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005 Jonathan Kay.
You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.

"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
news:0a8f01c5198d$7d1fb400$a601280a@phx.gbl...
> Hi Jon,
>
> *Sob* I really really want to know WHEN (Date&Time) I'm
> being added/deleted thou. ~>_<~ sob~ sob~
>
> By any chance I can know about it?
>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>Dear Christian Kellerer & Jonathan Kay,
>>
>>Firstly, Thank U so much for the help!
>>
>>I have other questions...@_@
>>
>>Sometimes ago,I learnt about the first method Jonathan
>>mentioned below,out of curiosity, I checked out everyone
>>on my list.
>>
>>Person A,has been on my list...
>>For mine last check,the Delete option isn't greyed
>>out,which means I'm being deleted.
>>Yesterday,I was editing my Allow/Block list,I checked
>>again. This time~I am greyed out,which means I'm being
>>added in again,right?
>>
>>Qn:
>>If I'm suppose to get notified when someone added me,for
>>this incident,I didn't not receive any notification at
>>all. Why is that so?
>>
>>If I'm being blocked, but not deleted. The Delete option
>>will be grey out or not?
>>
>>Best Regards,
>>Ycs^^
>>
>>>-----Original Message-----
>>>Greetings,
>>>
>>>You can find out if someone has removed you from their
>>list, by clicking the Tools menu, then
>>>Options, then Privacy tab, right-clicking their name in
>>the Allow/Blocked lists, and seeing
>>>if the Delete option is grayed out or not. If it is
>>grayed, then you're still on their list,
>>>if it isn't, you've been removed.
>>>
>>>There are block checkers, but they don't really work
>>(the default options in Messenger
>>>prevent it).
>>>
>>>Contact lists are stored on the server; nothing will
>>change from formatting or logging on a
>>>different PC.
>>>____________________________________________
>>>Jonathan Kay
>>>Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
>>>Associate Expert
>>>http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
>>>Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
>>>All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005
>>Jonathan Kay.
>>>You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.
>>>
>>>"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in
>>message
>>>news:0e9f01c518d1$0bc49030$a501280a@phx.gbl...
>>>> Hi~
>>>>
>>>> How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added
>>or
>>>> deleted from a friend's contact list?
>>>>
>>>> How do I identify from being blocked?
>>>>
>>>> If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
>>the
>>>> OS system,does this affect my status in his/her
> contact
>>>> list?
>>>>
>>>> Thank U so Much!^^
>>>
>>>
>>>.
>>>
>>.
>>

Jonathan
Thu Feb 24 15:43:46 CST 2005

Hi,

You won't be able to know this information as these "checkers" can only check when the "All
users" setting is set to the Allow list (which isn't the default); so it's rather useless.
____________________________________________
Jonathan Kay
Microsoft MVP - MSN Messenger/Windows Messenger
Associate Expert
http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com
All posts unless otherwise specified are (c) 2005 Jonathan Kay.
You *must* contact me for redistribution rights.

"ycs" <anonymous@discussions.microsoft.com> wrote in message
news:0a9301c5198e$33a32ef0$a601280a@phx.gbl...
> So~
> The MSN Blocker will only works when the person is online?
> I won't get to know whether I'm being Blocked, if the
> person is offline?
>
>>-----Original Message-----
>>Hi~
>>
>>How do I find out when(date & time) was I being added or
>>deleted from a friend's contact list?
>>
>>How do I identify from being blocked?
>>
>>If someone had remove MSN Msnger from PC or re-format
> the
>>OS system,does this affect my status in his/her contact
>>list?
>>
>>Thank U so Much!^^
>>.
>>

ycs
Thu Feb 24 20:59:18 CST 2005


I have other questions...@_@

Sometimes ago,I learnt about the first method Jonathan
mentioned below,out of curiosity, I checked out everyone
on my list.

Person A,has been on my list...
For mine last check,the Delete option isn't greyed
out,which means I'm being deleted.
Yesterday,I was editing my Allow/Block list,I checked
again. This time~I am greyed out,which means I'm being
added in again,right?

Qn:
If I'm suppose to get notified when someone added me,for
this incident,I didn't not receive any notification at
all. Why is that so?

If I'm being blocked, but not deleted. The Delete option
will be grey out or not?

Best Regards,
Ycs^^